Each observer is already creating or allowing 100% of their experience, consciously or unconsciously. The two are not separate. Here we are overlapping in this moment. Namaste. As individuals, we can become more proficient, masterful, and even artistic at responding to it, and getting feedback on each choice.
For a spiritual adult, responsibility is not a burden it is to a teenager — it is simply the ability to respond, internally and externally. Power is the willingness and ability to respond to the situation at hand. Success is when you make a choice inside and see it reflected, either internally or externally.
To get with the experience of oneness is to not only realize that the observer and the observed are one, but to learn that the inherent power in each observer is greater than any illusion in samsara, in the Matrix, in the present moment before it flickers away and joins the infinite past. Physical reality is pliable and can be changed from the inside because of the inherent uncertainty of the future. This is the practical side of oneness.
From this point, the name of the game becomes conscious reality creation, co-creation, & a dance with/as the mysteries that lie beyond. It is the highest tantra - to change the internal reality so that is reflected in the external reality, and to metaphorically-emotionally interpret the external so that it can be processed/loved internally and then show up differently in samsara.
When “I” break a pattern inside, I can expect to see the feedback “outside.” Receiving is a fusion of willingness and willfulness, and receiving more than you expect is a miracle. Beyond the duality of internal and external there is the natural creative intelligence of reality itself.
In The Matrix, Neo is taking 100% responsibility for the future of humanity, and is not willing to let any ideological limitation stop him from getting there. He is joined by a cast of heroes who also take 100% responsibility, in their own way, for their own reality.
Responsibility isn’t a burden to an awakened adult - it’s just the ability to respond, internally and/or externally. So if each of us take 100% responsibility, realizing that to hurt the “other” is to hurt oneself, then we are living the meaning of terms like Namaste and Ubuntu. It is through our love - unconditional and conditional, gentle and fierce - that this world will grow toward peace.
Looking at the chaos and confusion and pain in the world, I can only take that as a part of my own unconscious, subconscious (and sometimes even conscious) mind that needs to change in order to move into the future of our dreams. A collective shadow purge & the end of the old paradigm of domination, creating a space for a more loving future. The qualities of being there are the steps to getting there.
I read an article called, "What Would Happen If Everyone Truly Believed Everything Is One?" If you ask me, it's not really about "everyone else needs to get it," it's more about "me" — this observer — getting it deeper inside and having it reflected back in physical reality. Observation isn't neutral. Each moment is a prayer.